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Let the fear drive you through

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Fear is that four letter word, that either gets you going towards your target or lets you leave everything and think of uncertain thoughts. Yes, it really is both good and bad for us. Its how we take it or rather how we face it decides the role of fear in our lives. There are, as per my knowledge, only two types of fear; the fear of failure & the fear of rejection. Both of these sound so negative, but if worked upon correctly, can have their own advantages. Yes, you read it right, they can be of your advantage, only if we understand how bad their disadvantages can be. Talking of both the types, we will understand that we face or we possess both of them depending upon the situations we are in or the consequences we face. Fear of failure is the one that we've been petting in our minds from the time we started walking or maybe just crawling. We put every step with utmost fear of falling on the ground once we started walking by ourselves. And, that was the first fear that pl...

Refocus

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We all have different goals at different age groups, some short-term, some long-term & some that we are not sure about but we do have them too. And this third category of the goals plays a big role in our day to day activities. Hence we need to identify what exactly are these subconscious goals that are not letting us be happy about the other achievements in life. At the age of 10, many of us had goals or ambitions of being a pilot because we wanted to fly the plane or being a doctor because we liked the doctor's role we played in school plays & yes, most of us wanted to be an actor because it seemed so cool & you can literally be anyone as an actor. All these goals or the dreams faded because we grew up and were introduced to reality. Some of us really went on to pursue a career as a pilot, a doctor or an actor. Well, lucky are those who could really focus on what their heart said at a young age and took the necessary actions to achieve these goals. ...